How SinglesAdvocate Works

Create your account and build your dating profile — photos, bio, what you do, what you're about. This is what other people's advocates will see when they're browsing for their friend.

• Add 1-6 photos that show the real you
• Write a bio (or let your friends write one for you later)
• Set your private preferences — age range, religion, distance. These are never shared with anyone.

Send invite links to 2-5 friends you trust with your love life. These are the people who'll be browsing, chatting, and voting on your behalf. Choose wisely — they literally decide who you date.

• Minimum 2 advocates required before matching starts
• Free tier: 2 advocate slots. Boost tier: up to 5
• Advocates can also help other friends — no limit on how many singles they advocate for

Your advocates see a curated list of candidates — already filtered by your private preferences behind the scenes. They browse profiles the way you would, except they're looking with clarity, not desperation.

• Candidates are filtered by your private preferences (you never see the filtering criteria)
• Advocates see photos, bio, lifestyle info, and any advocate pitches from the other side
• When an advocate likes someone, they nominate them — creating a potential match

Here's where it gets interesting. Once a nomination is made, the advocates from both sides can chat. Your friends talk to their friends. They ask the real questions. They vibe check.

• Chat is between advocate groups — the singles are not involved
• This is where friends get real: 'What's their deal?' 'Are they actually over their ex?'
• Think of it as the pre-screening your friends would do at a party, but structured

Any advocate can initiate a vote. All advocates on both sides weigh in — approve, reject, or abstain. Majority rules. If both sides approve, the match is on.

• Majority of non-abstaining votes decides each side
• Minimum 2 votes per side required (no single person decides alone)
• 72-hour voting window — keeps things moving

When both sides approve, the singles finally see each other's profiles for the first time. No more mystery — but by now, you already know this person has been thoroughly vetted by people you trust.

The app handles logistics. A venue type is suggested, a time is proposed, both singles confirm. No more 'where should we go?' back-and-forth. Just show up and be yourself — your friends already did the hard part.

• Choose a venue type: coffee, dinner, drinks, or an activity
• Both singles confirm the plan before it's locked in
• After the date, both provide feedback — want a second date? Your advocates want to know.